If You’re Defending Yourself, You’re Already Wrong

A lot of people say a lot of things about what it takes to make a relationship work. Every day, I scroll past articles on my Facebook feed featuring "5 Things You Can Do to Make Your Relationship Last" or "3 Things You Should Never, Ever Do to Your Spouse if You Don't Want a Divorce." Sometimes I click on stuff like that and sometimes I don't. Not because I don't need all the help I can get when it comes to navigating love, but most of the time the articles say the same things I've read other places.

Now that Serge and I have decided we want to make our relationship work, we spend a lot of time talking about what we did wrong when we were married and what we want to do differently now.

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